How to Squirt: A Guide to Unlocking Intense Orgasms
We like the slow build-up this position offers—it’s less about intensity and more about keeping a steady, gradual rhythm that leads to an incredible release. The closeness of spooning is a bonus, making us feel safe while you work your magic. You’re sitting back, she’s straddling you, with her back against your chest—perfect for easy access. One hand wraps around her, the other dives between her legs to find that G-spot sweet spot.
You’re doing right when you feel the tip of your fingers inside her vaginal upper wall against your flat hand, pressing down on the A-spot area. Sure, a sex educator can teach you all the techniques. But what they don’t emphasize enough is the concept of sexual polarity.
Whether or not squirting is a part of how you experience pleasure, enjoy the experience of getting to know your body, and honoring what feels right for you. During sex or arousal, some people get the feeling that they are going to pee, so they stop. That pressure felt in your urethra might actually be your body getting ready to ejaculate. Enjoy exploring your body, whether you squirt or not. Practice might not make perfect woman squirt, but you’ll at least have fun trying. That said, urine leaking during sex is a fairly common problem, and is called sexual incontinence.
Now it’s time to combine forces to double her pleasure. With one hand, you will be using some of the techniques I described above for rubbing her clit while using your other hand to penetrate her and massage her G Spot. You’ll be stimulating her clitoris from the inside and outside. While stimulating the G-spot area may help her to squirt, there are no guarantees.
While you may know the clit as the small ‘button’ where a girl’s inner labia meet, the clitoris is actually a long, spongy shaft that reaches up to five inches inside a girl’s body. This network splits into two ‘legs’ that run either side of her vulva. Your first task is to help your girl address any problems, challenges or stresses that are preventing her from relaxing and unwinding.
Most women ‘hold back’ during orgasms because we are afraid of losing control. Good lubrication is crucial for squirting, in fact, without it, a pleasurable touch can quickly turn into an irritable friction burn. Most women get the feelings confused and for this reason, they’ll hold back.
It can happen to some women all the time, once in a blue moon, or it might never happen at all — but yes, you can make yourself do it. That angle between the urethra and the bladder is like a kinked hoof when the bladder gets full. When you want to release it, you squeeze the muscles and it contracts like a balloon — and it pushes open that kinked hoof, and then you can pee. This is why when you push on the G-spot and a woman is not aroused, she feels like she has to pee and it can be really uncomfortable. But when she is aroused, meaning the urethra is full of blood, it feels really good because it pushes up against the erectile tissue. For maximum sexual pleasure, start by edging three to five times before you reach orgasm.
This includes making sure you have a towel for clean up. Because even if there’s just a small amount of milky white fluid, you don’t want her to be worried about getting fluids all over the sheets. Have easy clean up available for her, because then she can let go and make a mess. She’ll tell all her friends you’re the best lover she’s ever had. See how long you can hold off before you hit that “point of no return.” The longer you last, the better your stamina. You’ll notice the more you edge, the more control you’ll have.